Bright Mornings, Even When It’s Still Dark Outside
When it’s dark in the morning, it can feel like your brain never fully boots up.
The alarm goes off, the house is quiet, the sun is nowhere to be found—and suddenly everything feels slower, heavier, and harder to start.
If winter mornings leave you reaching for more coffee just to feel human, you’re not alone.
Why Dark Mornings Feel So Hard
Here’s something interesting: your body responds to patterns, not just the clock.
When mornings feel gloomy, your nervous system lacks the familiar cues that say, “It’s time to go.”
Light is a big part of that—but it’s not the only one.
Your senses, especially smell and taste, can help reinforce a routine and gently signal your body that the day has begun.
Today’s Tip: Create a 2-Minute Morning Reset
Instead of reaching for more coffee right away, try creating a simple, repeatable morning reset.
It doesn’t need to be elaborate or time-consuming. The goal isn’t perfection—it’s consistency.
Before diving into your day:
- Open a curtain or window if possible
- Take a few slow, deep breaths
- Pair the moment with something you actually enjoy
This small ritual becomes a familiar “start signal” that helps your body shift into go-mode.
How Scent Supports Brighter Mornings
Scent is one of the fastest ways to influence mood and energy.
How to Use It
- While getting ready, diffuse Citrus Fresh™ Essential Oil Blend
- Or inhale it directly from your hands for a bright, clean-smelling start
Citrus Fresh™ feels like instant fresh air—even when you’re stuck indoors and it’s still dark outside.
A Simple Sip That Supports Morning Energy
Taste can also become part of your morning reset.
How to Use It
- Keep NingXia Red® 2 oz Singles in the fridge or your bag
- Sip one with breakfast for an easy, on-the-go superfruit boost
Because they’re pre-portioned, they make consistency simple—no measuring, no prep.
Why We Love This Morning Pairing
Citrus Fresh™ Essential Oil Blend
This uplifting blend includes Orange, Grapefruit, Mandarin, Tangerine, Lemon, and Spearmint. The scent is light, energizing, and refreshing—perfect for winter mornings when sunlight is limited.
NingXia Red® Singles
Each single includes Ningxia wolfberry puree, a blend of superfruits, and citrus oils like Orange and Yuzu. It’s an easy way to support your body first thing in the morning without overthinking it.
Consistency Beats Intensity
Bright mornings don’t come from doing more.
They come from doing one small thing consistently—something your body begins to recognize as the start of the day.
Whether it’s scent, a simple sip, or a quiet moment of breathing, these gentle signals can make winter mornings feel more manageable—and even enjoyable.
Final Thought
What’s harder for you in winter?
- Getting going in the morning?
- Or hitting that mid-afternoon slump?
Either way, small daily habits can make a big difference.
Here’s to brighter starts—even when it’s still dark outside ☀️
How will you celebrate Valentine’s Day with your spouse?
Where we live, enjoying a quiet, romantic dinner at a restaurant on Valentine’s Day is basically impossible unless reservations are made a month in advance—and neither of us is quite that organized.
So our Valentine’s panic usually goes something like this:
“OH MY WORD! TOMORROW’S VALENTINE’S DAY!”
Cue both of us running to Walmart to grab cards and candy for the kids… and for each other.
And honestly?
That’s okay. I like our style.
Why We Skip the Crowds on Valentine’s Day
Overstuffed restaurants.
Insane traffic.
Long waits and rushed meals.
Insane traffic.
Long waits and rushed meals.
It’s crazy.
And I’d much rather… stay home.
So instead of fighting crowds, my husband and I stick to a simple Valentine’s Day tradition that’s become one of our favorites.
Our Go-To Valentine’s Night Tradition
We eat chocolate we purchased in a hurry, give each other back massages, and relax together.
(Okay—maybe not the dramatic staring into each other’s eyes 😄—but we definitely go for the chocolate and back massages!)
Chocolate and a back massage with the one I love… who could ask for more on Valentine’s Day?
I’m Picky About the Details (For Good Reason)
I am particular about two things:
1. The Chocolate
Give me dark, salted Ghirardelli.
No substitutes. It’s the best.
2. The Massage Oil
This matters more than people realize.
The oil is going to be absorbed through my skin—and potentially my whole body (assuming the kids don’t have a crisis in the middle of our fun!).
So no sticky, toxic goop for me. I want something smooth, warm, and pure.
Our Favorite Massage Oil for Valentine’s Day
Our current favorite is Ortho Ease by Young Living, with a few extra drops of Lavender essential oil added in.
Honestly, Ortho Ease doesn’t need anything added—it’s already amazing—but we add Lavender just for fun.
- My husband loves the smell
- I love the warmth and gentle tingly feeling
- Lavender keeps me comfortable when my back is exposed
It’s relaxing, soothing, and just feels… special.
Keeping the Spark Alive in Marriage
That’s a little peek into how we usually spend Valentine’s Day—or any romantic night together.
And yes, even after:
- 25 years of marriage
- 11 kids
- Multiple pets
- Too many loads of laundry to count
…it’s still important to make time for each other.
It doesn’t have to be fancy.
It doesn’t have to be expensive.
It doesn’t even have to be Valentine’s Day.
It doesn’t have to be expensive.
It doesn’t even have to be Valentine’s Day.
Whether it’s a holiday or just your weekly date night, intentional time together matters.
Simple Traditions Can Mean Everything
Keeping passion alive in marriage often looks like small, meaningful choices—choosing connection over chaos and presence over perfection.
So tell me…
Do you have any special Valentine’s traditions?
Last week, we did what we’ve learned to do best in January—run toward the sun ☀️
My husband and I packed up our six youngest kids (ages 12–24) and headed for the Virgin Islands by cruise. And oh… it was everything you imagine—salty air, sandy toes, sun-kissed skin, and that deep, much-needed exhale.
Then we came home.
Sunshine traded for ice forecasts overnight.
Total weather whiplash. 😅
Total weather whiplash. 😅
And honestly? Our bodies felt it immediately.
Why We Crave Sunshine (It’s Not Just in Your Head)
There’s a reason we long for the sun.
There’s a reason our bodies feel better in the summer.
There’s a reason our bodies feel better in the summer.
At the beach, we’re immersed in mineral-rich ocean air and saltwater. We naturally breathe in and absorb trace minerals like:
- Magnesium – calming and restorative
- Iodine – essential for thyroid health
- Trace minerals – used for energy, immunity, and balance
Add in vitamin D from the sun, and suddenly the body can actually use those minerals efficiently.
A single day at the beach does more for the body than we often realize.
The Winter Mineral Gap
Winter isn’t just cold.
We lose:
- Sun exposure
- Sea air
- Natural mineral absorption
So when energy dips, moods shift, and immunity feels weaker, it’s not “all in your head.”
👉 It’s the mineral gap.
Short, cold days are harder on most people—physically and emotionally—and research consistently shows winter takes a toll on immune resilience.
Today’s Tip: Build Immune Strength With Daily Support
If a trip to the equator isn’t in the cards (same 🙋♀️), the next best thing is consistent daily habits that help support your immune system during the colder months.
Daily support matters more than occasional fixes.
How to Support Immunity Naturally (Simple Daily Habits)
Here are a few easy ways to support immune strength through winter:
Inner Defense®
- Take one softgel daily
- Supports immune strength and overall wellness
Thieves® Vitality Essential Oil
- Add one drop to warm tea or honey
- A warm, spicy blend that supports the body’s natural defenses
Mineral Essence
- Add 2–4 dropperfuls to a large glass of water
- Helps replenish minerals often depleted during winter months
Why We Love This Daily Immune Support Trio
- Inner Defense is packed with immune-supporting essential oils to help keep you feeling strong and supported
- Thieves Vitality offers comforting daily wellness support, especially during cold and flu season
- Mineral Essence helps fill the mineral gap when sunlight and sea air are missing
These small, consistent habits help the body stay resilient—without overwhelm.
You Don’t Need the Tropics to Feel Strong
Would I happily return to the Virgin Islands tomorrow? Absolutely.
But until then, daily immune support helps bridge the seasonal gap.
Winter doesn’t have to mean running on empty.
With the right habits in place, you can feel supported, strong, and steady—no passport required.
Wishing you a healthy, resilient winter season 💛
Morning Hydration for Natural Energy: Why Coffee Isn’t Enough
Morning ☀️
I’m a coffee drinker—no shame in my game.
Hot. Black. Creamy. Fancy. Simple.
If there’s a mug involved, I’m in.
But here’s the truth: drinking coffee has never really been about the coffee for me.
It’s about the warm hug feeling that comes from holding a hot, steaming cup of something bold. Cozy. Comforting. Familiar.
And honestly? That’s all I ask from it.
Why Coffee Isn’t the Answer for Energy
I don’t expect coffee to give me lasting energy, mental clarity, or health—because science and common sense agree on this one:
Coffee can’t give what it doesn’t have.
In fact, coffee does not hydrate.
It actually dehydrates.
So if you love coffee like I do, hydration has to become a priority—especially first thing in the morning.
The Real Key to Morning Energy: Hydration
If you want natural, sustainable morning energy, start with hydration.
Before stimulants. Before scrolling. Before running out the door.
When you hydrate your body properly, you support:
- Natural energy production
- Better digestion
- Improved circulation and oxygenation
- Clearer thinking and focus
And the good news? There isn’t just one right way to do it.
(This is one of the many reasons I love essential oils—it’s basically healthcare for dummies 🤪)
Simple Ways to Hydrate for Energy in the Morning
Here are a few easy, flexible options you can customize to your body:
Add Essential Oils to Your Water
Peppermint, spearmint, or citrus oils are refreshing and energizing.
- Start with one drop in a glass of water
- Increase slowly if desired
- Listen to your body
⚠️ Skip plastic cups—these oils can break them down. Glass is best.
NingXia Red for Daily Energy Support
Another favorite option is NingXia Red.
You can drink it on its own or add vitality oils for an extra boost. It’s simple, effective, and easy to make part of your daily routine.
How to Use NingXia Red
- Drink 1–2 ounces daily
- Supports energy, immunity, and overall wellness
- Can be paired with vitality oils for added support
For those feeling extra tired or run down, consider committing to vitality oils in water or NingXia Red daily for 30 days.
Keep a simple journal and notice how your energy shifts over time.
Why Consistency Matters More Than Perfection
The key to growing in health and energy isn’t doing everything perfectly.
It’s consistency.
Small, daily habits compound over time. When hydration becomes non-negotiable, your body responds.
Why We Love Drinking Essential Oils
When you drink high-quality essential oils:
- You support digestion
- You help oxygenate the blood
- You support overall wellness
Diffusing oils can also support mental clarity and mood—and many people choose to do both.
Quality matters.
These oils are safe, versatile, and very different from the oils sold in grocery or health food stores. When it comes to supporting health, sourcing makes all the difference.
A Note on Weight Loss & GLP-1 Options
Before I go—did you see the buzz around Young Living’s new plant-based GLP-1 support products (Balance and Burn)?
They’re getting rave reviews from the pilot group and are not the same as pharmaceutical GLP-1 medications.
Pharmaceutical GLP-1s often come with side effects like:
- Digestive discomfort (nausea, bloating, constipation, diarrhea)
- Fatigue or low energy
- Difficulty eating enough to nourish the body
- Rapid weight loss that may include muscle loss
- Results that stop when the medication stops
This isn’t about fear or judgment—it’s about being informed so you can choose what best supports your body and long-term health.
Final Thoughts
Enjoy your coffee.
Just don’t expect it to do the job hydration was designed to do.
Hydrate first. Support your body naturally. Be consistent.
And then—sip your coffee and enjoy the cozy hug ☕
The Choice Is Always Yours
Finding Contentment in a World That Always Wants More
Last week, the kids and I ventured out to our local Butterfly Museum.
We eagerly anticipated soft, feather-like creatures floating by, landing gently on our shoulders, and posing sweetly for photos.
What we didn’t anticipate was how overwhelming that experience might feel.
When “What We Want” Becomes Too Much
Halle—my then two-year-old—ran excitedly through the doors and down the concrete steps of the Butterfly Museum without a care in the world.
Until I shouted, “Halle, look up!”
The living, fluttering ceiling caught her completely off guard. She ducked, screamed, and ran for cover.
Which led to her next problem.
There is no cover in a Butterfly Museum.
Only trees covered in butterflies. Rocks covered in butterflies. Platforms layered with even more butterflies.
Not exactly a happy situation for a toddler trying to escape butterflies.
The scene was almost comical. She thought she wanted to be surrounded by butterflies—until her wish came true and fear replaced excitement.
When Abundance Turns Into Burden
Then there was my thirteen-year-old, dressed in bright red.
We had missed the memo that butterflies flock to red like gentle bulls charging an open gate. She spent the afternoon swatting her back, asking repeatedly, “Is that my tag—or a butterfly? Check again!”
She learned quickly that a few butterflies are delightful… but thousands can become overwhelming.
The Danger of “More Is Better” Thinking
My husband and I often joke that if a little is good, then a whole lot must be even better.
That mindset has gotten us into trouble more times than we care to admit.
And if we’re honest, it’s gotten most of us into trouble.
I’m reminded of Charlie and the Chocolate Factory—the little boy who reasoned that if a little chocolate was good, then eating a lot must be even better.
That’s human nature.
How Greed Steals Joy
Greed quietly robs us of peace, joy, and contentment.
Contentment, on the other hand, is a choice—and it’s one that frees the soul to live a full and joyful life regardless of circumstances.
The Apostle Paul practiced contentment while imprisoned—cold, hungry, and uncomfortable—yet at peace (Philippians 4:11).
John Bunyan wrote Pilgrim’s Progress while confined to a filthy prison cell, unfit even for animals. Instead of focusing on what he lacked, he rested in what he had—life, pen, and paper—and gave the world one of the most impactful books ever written.
When Discontentment Spoils Families
Discontentment feeds greed, and greed steals joy—not just from individuals, but from families.
If we have food and shelter, we truly have all we need.
Take a moment to consider the extras God has already provided:
- 24 pairs of shoes
- Closets full of clothes
- Drawers overflowing with jewelry
- A refrigerator stocked with food
- One car… or three
- More kitchen tools than cabinet space
- More dishes than we could use in a week
- More décor than we can dust in an hour
When “Just Enough” Is the Greatest Blessing
Abundance itself isn’t bad—until it becomes a burden.
Too much laundry. Too much dusting. Too much managing.
Scripture reminds us, “It is more blessed to give than to receive” (Acts 20:35).
If your possessions feel heavy, consider blessing your neighbors. We can’t take wood, hay, and stubble with us when we leave this earth—so why spend so much time worrying about it?
Stuff requires money, time, maintenance, storage, insurance, and mental energy.
Ask yourself this:
Would you rather dust your stuff—or fly to Italy?
Choosing Freedom Over Stuff
Bigger and more do not automatically mean better.
So often we chase what we think we want, only to realize too late that we lost what truly mattered along the way.
If you’re in debt, stretched thin, and burdened by belongings, consider shedding some wood, hay, and stubble.
Trim material responsibilities. Save the money that’s freed up. Bless your family with time. Bless others with your abundance.
Rest in Contentment
The choice is always yours.
Shed some stuff.
Rest in contentment.
And find joy in the process.
The Choice Is Always Yours
Finding Contentment in a World That Always Wants More
by Terri Bonin
Last week, the kids and I ventured out to our local Butterfly Museum.
We eagerly anticipated soft, feather-like creatures floating by, landing gently on our shoulders, and posing sweetly for photos.
What we didn’t anticipate was how overwhelming that experience might feel.
When “What We Want” Becomes Too Much
Halle—my then two-year-old—ran excitedly through the doors and down the concrete steps of the Butterfly Museum without a care in the world.
Until I shouted, “Halle, look up!”
The living, fluttering ceiling caught her completely off guard. She ducked, screamed, and ran for cover.
Which led to her next problem.
There is no cover in a Butterfly Museum.
Only trees covered in butterflies. Rocks covered in butterflies. Platforms layered with even more butterflies.
Not exactly a happy situation for a toddler trying to escape butterflies.
The scene was almost comical. She thought she wanted to be surrounded by butterflies—until her wish came true and fear replaced excitement.
When Abundance Turns Into Burden
Then there was my thirteen-year-old, dressed in bright red.
We had missed the memo that butterflies flock to red like gentle bulls charging an open gate. She spent the afternoon swatting her back, asking repeatedly, “Is that my tag—or a butterfly? Check again!”
She learned quickly that a few butterflies are delightful… but thousands can become overwhelming.
The Danger of “More Is Better” Thinking
My husband and I often joke that if a little is good, then a whole lot must be even better.
That mindset has gotten us into trouble more times than we care to admit.
And if we’re honest, it’s gotten most of us into trouble.
I’m reminded of Charlie and the Chocolate Factory—the little boy who reasoned that if a little chocolate was good, then eating a lot must be even better.
That’s human nature.
How Greed Steals Joy
Greed quietly robs us of peace, joy, and contentment.
Contentment, on the other hand, is a choice—and it’s one that frees the soul to live a full and joyful life regardless of circumstances.
The Apostle Paul practiced contentment while imprisoned—cold, hungry, and uncomfortable—yet at peace (Philippians 4:11).
John Bunyan wrote Pilgrim’s Progress while confined to a filthy prison cell, unfit even for animals. Instead of focusing on what he lacked, he rested in what he had—life, pen, and paper—and gave the world one of the most impactful books ever written.
When Discontentment Spoils Families
Discontentment feeds greed, and greed steals joy—not just from individuals, but from families.
If we have food and shelter, we truly have all we need.
Take a moment to consider the extras God has already provided:
- 24 pairs of shoes
- Closets full of clothes
- Drawers overflowing with jewelry
- A refrigerator stocked with food
- One car… or three
- More kitchen tools than cabinet space
- More dishes than we could use in a week
- More décor than we can dust in an hour
When “Just Enough” Is the Greatest Blessing
Abundance itself isn’t bad—until it becomes a burden.
Too much laundry. Too much dusting. Too much managing.
Scripture reminds us, “It is more blessed to give than to receive” (Acts 20:35).
If your possessions feel heavy, consider blessing your neighbors. We can’t take wood, hay, and stubble with us when we leave this earth—so why spend so much time worrying about it?
Stuff requires money, time, maintenance, storage, insurance, and mental energy.
Ask yourself this:
Would you rather dust your stuff—or fly to Italy?
Choosing Freedom Over Stuff
Bigger and more do not automatically mean better.
So often we chase what we think we want, only to realize too late that we lost what truly mattered along the way.
If you’re in debt, stretched thin, and burdened by belongings, consider shedding some wood, hay, and stubble.
Trim material responsibilities. Save the money that’s freed up. Bless your family with time. Bless others with your abundance.
Rest in Contentment
The choice is always yours.
Shed some stuff.
Rest in contentment.
And find joy in the process.
The Choice Is Always Yours
Finding Contentment in a World That Always Wants More
by Terri Bonin
Last week, the kids and I ventured out to our local Butterfly Museum.
We eagerly anticipated soft, feather-like creatures floating by, landing gently on our shoulders, and posing sweetly for photos.
What we didn’t anticipate was how overwhelming that experience might feel.
When “What We Want” Becomes Too Much
Halle—my then two-year-old—ran excitedly through the doors and down the concrete steps of the Butterfly Museum without a care in the world.
Until I shouted, “Halle, look up!”
The living, fluttering ceiling caught her completely off guard. She ducked, screamed, and ran for cover.
Which led to her next problem.
There is no cover in a Butterfly Museum.
Only trees covered in butterflies. Rocks covered in butterflies. Platforms layered with even more butterflies.
Not exactly a happy situation for a toddler trying to escape butterflies.
The scene was almost comical. She thought she wanted to be surrounded by butterflies—until her wish came true and fear replaced excitement.
When Abundance Turns Into Burden
Then there was my thirteen-year-old, dressed in bright red.
We had missed the memo that butterflies flock to red like gentle bulls charging an open gate. She spent the afternoon swatting her back, asking repeatedly, “Is that my tag—or a butterfly? Check again!”
She learned quickly that a few butterflies are delightful… but thousands can become overwhelming.
The Danger of “More Is Better” Thinking
My husband and I often joke that if a little is good, then a whole lot must be even better.
That mindset has gotten us into trouble more times than we care to admit.
And if we’re honest, it’s gotten most of us into trouble.
I’m reminded of Charlie and the Chocolate Factory—the little boy who reasoned that if a little chocolate was good, then eating a lot must be even better.
That’s human nature.
How Greed Steals Joy
Greed quietly robs us of peace, joy, and contentment.
Contentment, on the other hand, is a choice—and it’s one that frees the soul to live a full and joyful life regardless of circumstances.
The Apostle Paul practiced contentment while imprisoned—cold, hungry, and uncomfortable—yet at peace (Philippians 4:11).
John Bunyan wrote Pilgrim’s Progress while confined to a filthy prison cell, unfit even for animals. Instead of focusing on what he lacked, he rested in what he had—life, pen, and paper—and gave the world one of the most impactful books ever written.
When Discontentment Spoils Families
Discontentment feeds greed, and greed steals joy—not just from individuals, but from families.
If we have food and shelter, we truly have all we need.
Take a moment to consider the extras God has already provided:
- 24 pairs of shoes
- Closets full of clothes
- Drawers overflowing with jewelry
- A refrigerator stocked with food
- One car… or three
- More kitchen tools than cabinet space
- More dishes than we could use in a week
- More décor than we can dust in an hour
When “Just Enough” Is the Greatest Blessing
Abundance itself isn’t bad—until it becomes a burden.
Too much laundry. Too much dusting. Too much managing.
Scripture reminds us, “It is more blessed to give than to receive” (Acts 20:35).
If your possessions feel heavy, consider blessing your neighbors. We can’t take wood, hay, and stubble with us when we leave this earth—so why spend so much time worrying about it?
Stuff requires money, time, maintenance, storage, insurance, and mental energy.
Ask yourself this:
Would you rather dust your stuff—or fly to Italy?
Choosing Freedom Over Stuff
Bigger and more do not automatically mean better.
So often we chase what we think we want, only to realize too late that we lost what truly mattered along the way.
If you’re in debt, stretched thin, and burdened by belongings, consider shedding some wood, hay, and stubble.
Trim material responsibilities. Save the money that’s freed up. Bless your family with time. Bless others with your abundance.
Rest in Contentment
The choice is always yours.
Shed some stuff.
Rest in contentment.
And find joy in the process.
The Choice Is Always Yours
Finding Contentment in a World That Always Wants More
by Terri Bonin
Last week, the kids and I ventured out to our local Butterfly Museum.
We eagerly anticipated soft, feather-like creatures floating by, landing gently on our shoulders, and posing sweetly for photos.
What we didn’t anticipate was how overwhelming that experience might feel.
When “What We Want” Becomes Too Much
Halle—my then two-year-old—ran excitedly through the doors and down the concrete steps of the Butterfly Museum without a care in the world.
Until I shouted, “Halle, look up!”
The living, fluttering ceiling caught her completely off guard. She ducked, screamed, and ran for cover.
Which led to her next problem.
There is no cover in a Butterfly Museum.
Only trees covered in butterflies. Rocks covered in butterflies. Platforms layered with even more butterflies.
Not exactly a happy situation for a toddler trying to escape butterflies.
The scene was almost comical. She thought she wanted to be surrounded by butterflies—until her wish came true and fear replaced excitement.
When Abundance Turns Into Burden
Then there was my thirteen-year-old, dressed in bright red.
We had missed the memo that butterflies flock to red like gentle bulls charging an open gate. She spent the afternoon swatting her back, asking repeatedly, “Is that my tag—or a butterfly? Check again!”
She learned quickly that a few butterflies are delightful… but thousands can become overwhelming.
The Danger of “More Is Better” Thinking
My husband and I often joke that if a little is good, then a whole lot must be even better.
That mindset has gotten us into trouble more times than we care to admit.
And if we’re honest, it’s gotten most of us into trouble.
I’m reminded of Charlie and the Chocolate Factory—the little boy who reasoned that if a little chocolate was good, then eating a lot must be even better.
That’s human nature.
How Greed Steals Joy
Greed quietly robs us of peace, joy, and contentment.
Contentment, on the other hand, is a choice—and it’s one that frees the soul to live a full and joyful life regardless of circumstances.
The Apostle Paul practiced contentment while imprisoned—cold, hungry, and uncomfortable—yet at peace (Philippians 4:11).
John Bunyan wrote Pilgrim’s Progress while confined to a filthy prison cell, unfit even for animals. Instead of focusing on what he lacked, he rested in what he had—life, pen, and paper—and gave the world one of the most impactful books ever written.
When Discontentment Spoils Families
Discontentment feeds greed, and greed steals joy—not just from individuals, but from families.
If we have food and shelter, we truly have all we need.
Take a moment to consider the extras God has already provided:
- 24 pairs of shoes
- Closets full of clothes
- Drawers overflowing with jewelry
- A refrigerator stocked with food
- One car… or three
- More kitchen tools than cabinet space
- More dishes than we could use in a week
- More décor than we can dust in an hour
When “Just Enough” Is the Greatest Blessing
Abundance itself isn’t bad—until it becomes a burden.
Too much laundry. Too much dusting. Too much managing.
Scripture reminds us, “It is more blessed to give than to receive” (Acts 20:35).
If your possessions feel heavy, consider blessing your neighbors. We can’t take wood, hay, and stubble with us when we leave this earth—so why spend so much time worrying about it?
Stuff requires money, time, maintenance, storage, insurance, and mental energy.
Ask yourself this:
Would you rather dust your stuff—or fly to Italy?
Choosing Freedom Over Stuff
Bigger and more do not automatically mean better.
So often we chase what we think we want, only to realize too late that we lost what truly mattered along the way.
If you’re in debt, stretched thin, and burdened by belongings, consider shedding some wood, hay, and stubble.
Trim material responsibilities. Save the money that’s freed up. Bless your family with time. Bless others with your abundance.
Rest in Contentment
The choice is always yours.
Shed some stuff.
Rest in contentment.
And find joy in the process.
Appropriate Discipline: Why Love and Boundaries Must Work Together
Last post, Miss Priss stormed out of class, destroyed a chalkboard, and openly disrespected her mom by ignoring instructions.
Remember when I said I had a bomb to drop?
Well… take cover.
The Truth About Fear-Based Obedience
It is possible for a parent to require a child to physically obey through severity. But here’s the truth no one likes to talk about:
A child who obeys only out of fear will stop obeying the moment freedom shows up—often when car keys grant independence.
Fear may control behavior for a season, but it never captures the heart.
Discipline Without Love Doesn’t Work
Discipline without love is ineffective—and often damaging.
But here’s the other side we must be honest about:
Love without discipline isn’t love at all.
Interestingly, both extremes often produce the same end result—rebellion. The harsh route just gets there faster and leaves everyone more exhausted.
The Power of Loving, Consistent Discipline
Consistent discipline paired with a loving, nurtured relationship creates something powerful:
A child who wants a parent’s counsel.
Too often, haste, impatience, and a sharp tone replace a kind explanation—when a kind explanation is exactly what’s needed in the first place.
When Misbehavior Is Really Misunderstanding
When Miss Priss created her dramatic scene, confusion about how the game worked may have been the spark.
This isn’t an excuse—but it is an important reminder.
I’ve seen children handled harshly and publicly embarrassed when the real issue was simple misunderstanding—understanding that was the adult’s responsibility to provide.
Children Act Childishly Because They Are Children
This truth seems obvious, yet we forget it easily.
Children don’t instinctively know how to behave. They need instruction, training, repetition, and grace.
Parents must teach children how to behave because children simply do not know on their own.
Discipline With Understanding and Kindness
Children need us to live with them in an understanding way while disciplining them appropriately.
They need kindness that quietly says:
“I think you’re cool—even when you’re frustrated, clumsy, or confused.”
A Small Moment With a Big Impact
The other day, I watched a young child spot his mom from a distance.
He ran toward her, smiling from ear to ear.
But his joy was met with a scowl and a sharp reprimand about running—rather than a warm smile and a cheerful, “Hi! I’m glad to see you.”
The child visibly deflated.
My heart broke for both of them.
That little one needed his mom’s smile and hug—and the mom, whether she realized it or not, needed his hug too.
Hugs Heal and Kind Words Instruct
Swift harshness pushes hearts away.
It should never be our default response to childishness.
When we deal with small matters while they are still small, emotions and behaviors are far less likely to spiral out of control.
Consistency during the younger years creates a much smoother road for both parents and children during the teen years.
Discipline for the Heart, Not Just Behavior
Seek wisdom in Scripture as you train your children.
Above all, deal lovingly in every situation—so your child doesn’t merely offer outward behavior modification wrapped in resentment.
The goal is something far better:
Heart obedience dressed in gratefulness.
Why Loving Correction Matters in Parenting
It’s Parent Observation Day in a kindergarten classroom.
Students buzz with excitement as they wait to show off a game called “Pass‑Catch: Answer” to their expectant parents. Moms and dads settle into their seats while the children huddle together, eyes locked on their teacher.
The game begins.
A beanbag flies from the proud teacher to her well‑taught pupils. Parents hold a collective breath.
Whoosh! Children jump to catch the bag of beans. Only one child will catch it at a time—though everyone will get a turn.
Plop! All eyes turn to the smiling winner.
When Emotions Take Over
One over‑excited student misses the opening toss by an inch. The realization sinks in: It’s not her turn yet.
And suddenly, the disappointed child becomes the center of attention.
Stomp! Stomp!
Huff!
With clenched fists and swinging arms, she storms toward the door, flings it open, and loudly declares, “I’M LEAVING.”
The observing parents wonder what the teacher will do. The teacher wonders what Miss Priss’s mom will do.
But no one does anything of significance.
When No One Steps In
Miss Priss is gently coaxed back into the room. She marches straight to the chalkboard and angrily erases the teacher’s hard work to show her disapproval.
The teacher resumes the game, hoping to calm the storm and restore peace. Mom shrugs sheepishly from her seat.
I understand the weary mom suddenly put on the spot in front of other parents.
I empathize with the tired teacher who doesn’t want to offend anyone.
But Miss Priss needs something far more important than comfort.
She needs someone to love her enough to say:
NO. This behavior is not acceptable.
Discipline Is Love in Action
Instructions must be followed by consequences. Discipline isn’t about punishment—it’s about adjustment. It’s about guiding a child’s heart and behavior before patterns become permanent.
As I watched this unfold, Miss Priss’s future flashed before my eyes.
I saw her as a teenager:
“MOOOOOM, he is NOT a thug! He’s wonderful and I LOVE him! You can’t stop me!”
And out she marches—same huff, same defiance, bigger stakes.
Why Early Discipline Matters So Much
Now is the time to train a child to listen to wise counsel.
It is almost now or never.
Six‑year‑old Miss Priss is rapidly becoming who she will be. The teenage years are closer than we think, and they arrive with little mercy.
If a child doesn’t learn to listen now, she won’t suddenly start later.
Only next time, it won’t be a chalkboard that’s destroyed—it could be her life.
Teaching the Habit of Obedience
We’ve talked about the habit of obedience:
- Practicing it
- Teaching it
- Instilling it into the very fiber of a child’s character
We’ve discussed consistency, follow‑through, and accountability—three very draining responsibilities, especially for the social‑media‑scrolling, blog‑loving mama.
I’ll admit it: it’s far easier to read about parenting than it is to actually step in and do the hard work.
Why Parents Must “Get In There”
But get in there we must.
Obedience does not come naturally. That’s exactly why we must proactively require it from our children—with love, firmness, and clarity.
And here’s the truth bomb:
Children crave boundaries even when they resist them.
I have something important to share with you about obedience and discipline—something that may challenge the way you think about both.
I’ll drop that in the next post, so stay tuned.
How to Flip Comparison: From Paralyzed to Sharpened
Comparison paralyzes.
Have you ever felt its tight, strangling grip? Most of us have—even though we know comparison is unhealthy for our joy, confidence, and growth. It sneaks in quietly and whispers thoughts that chip away at our peace:
- Her kids are sharp, obedient, and tidy. Mine are a mess in every way.
- If only my husband cared about me the way hers does.
- Her waist stays so trim. I’m bloated twelve months a year.
- Man, she’s got great hair.
- She has it all together, and my life feels like a sloppy mess.
Yuck.
Why Comparison Is So Dangerous
Comparison doesn’t just discourage us—it immobilizes us. When we constantly measure our behind-the-scenes reality against someone else’s polished image, motivation fades and gratitude disappears.
Left unchecked, comparison can spiral into shame, resentment, and even depression.
A Healthier Way to Look at Other People’s Lives
I have a few friends that, if I allowed myself to compare, could easily pull me into discouragement. But over time, I’ve learned something powerful:
I can let their lives sharpen me instead of depress me.
That simple mindset shift changes everything.
Let Comparison Sharpen, Not Suffocate
So her kids are disciplined? Of course they are—she invests time in training them instead of always serving herself. That doesn’t have to shame me; it can challenge me to stay focused and intentional as a mom.
So her husband is attentive and engaged? Of course he is—after decades together, she still flirts with him and prioritizes their relationship. That challenges me to keep the fire burning in my own marriage.
So her waist is trim? Of course it is—she studies nutrition and makes intentional choices for her family. That challenges me to ask questions, learn, and grow.
So she has great hair?
Well… that’s just not fair. We’re on our own with that one. 😉
What the Bible Says About Comparison
Scripture offers a better framework for growth:
“Iron sharpens iron, and one man sharpens another.” — Proverbs 27:17
We aren’t meant to compete with one another—we’re meant to sharpen one another. Growth happens in community, honesty, and humility.
Stop Comparing Your Bad Days to Someone Else’s Highlight Reel
Here’s a truth we all need to remember: everyone has struggles.
We all deal with:
- Fussy children
- Marital challenges
- Bloated seasons
- Bad hair days
Social media rarely shows the full picture. Comparing your hardest moments to someone else’s highlight reel is a guaranteed way to feel defeated.
Choose Growth Over Stagnation
As uncomfortable as it can be, real growth requires honesty. I’ve learned to admit when stagnation has taken root in my own life—and when it’s time for growth to replace it.
That’s why I’m intentional about the voices I allow into my space.
I seek friends who encourage, challenge, and sharpen me—not those who stir comparison or insecurity.
Grow Better, Not Bitter
It is good to be challenged. It’s healthy to be stretched. We were designed to grow stronger, wiser, and more refined over time.
Once we stop growing, we begin dying—so let’s commit to growing until the day He calls us home.
Embrace the challenge. Keep comparison in its proper place. And choose, every day, to grow better, not bitter.
